I couldn’t have said it better myself. If you push against or struggle with anything it goes against your nature and becomes more difficult. Once you let it go completely and come back to it then things will become easier. Stop trying so hard, you weren’t born to suffer, just stop the struggle.
The problem and the solution
How can I ask you to stop the struggle when it’s clear you are faced with a large challenge or problem? The answer to that is easily. The problem and the solution are two different frequencies with equal strength. If you struggle with it you will get nowhere. Your brain doesn’t effectively think of a problem and a solution at the same time, what results is confusion or frustration.
How to stop the struggle
Once you have identified a problem or a challenge that you are faced with leave it for a bit. You have asked the question and the answer will soon follow. Realize that the answer is there and allow it to come to you. Don’t struggle to get an answer, just allow it to jump into your head, and it will. The answer wants to come to you but if you are focused on the problem it can’t come to you. Let it go, and stop the struggle, the answer will appear. Once you have given up the power struggle for the brain it shouldn’t take long for the answer or solution to appear. With that I will leave you with a task. If you doubt it try it, see for yourself if this advice is sound. You will find that in future you will give up earlier and get your answers or solutions faster. You don’t have to take anything on faith.