Some reality improvement techniques are sure to help you with your reality. The following are some of my favourites…
Reality improvement technique 1. Making Changes to your surroundings
It is easier to focus on what you have than it is to focus or train your mind on what you want that is different. Focus on something small that you would like to change. Think about it, play it out in your mind, create the outcome you desire by rearranging the items in the image. Once you do that it will be easier to focus on things more important to you and make changes where they count.
Start with small things learning how to stay focussed on them. You don’t need to be single minded just play with it a little. An example would be, if you didn’t like a particular object in your house and you wished to change it to something specific. Put the item away and when you look in the now empty space envision what you would like to be there. Do this only when you pass the space naturally. Don’t make yourself do it. The object that you envision there will eventually replace what you had there. You will find it or someone will bring it to you. Be aware of what you are doing while you are doing it. One small change at a time.
Don’t over think it, don’t force it, don’t even think about it. Just let it happen. If you try to force it or go out of your way to find the object you won’t find it. You will forever look for it, until you settle on something similar. Envision and allow it to come to you. If it is something large, heavy, or something you use everyday, then allow yourself to soften the item when you look at it. Envision the new item as an overlay. Use the same technique as above. Only do this when you naturally pass the item. See what happens.
Reality improvement technique 2. No Effort
The Abrahams through Esther tell us that words do not teach. This is apparent when you see the same people over and over again going to workshops. If they understood it the first time they wouldn’t have been back. Well, actions don’t teach that well either. Even some that know law of attraction well, how it works and that it does work don’t apply it. Although this seems odd, it’s easier in a way to keep doing things the same way and getting the same results. People know what to expect then. While all that is fine if you have a relatively good life, if you don’t have the life that you would choose it’s an entirely new sort of fine.
Here it is. The law of attraction does not imply forcing, struggling, trying hard, or motivation to apply. As a matter of a fact it is natural and the word apply is too harsh. It isn’t an action as much as it is a state of being. This is not to say that action is not required but it isn’t necessarily the action that you think will get you where you wish to be. This is because you think in terms of what you believe to be real. If you could soften anything around you beyond three feet and love the moment of smelling a flower, petting your companion pet, or taking in a beautiful view, this in an easy not thinking sort of way, you would yield more of what you want. I am not suggesting you do that once per day, I am suggesting that you find the state of being that goes along with that easiness and be there in that state as often as possible.
Relaxing and being in the moment are the first things you can do to help yourself. If those things are difficult for you to do then try to apply an out of sight out of mind type of mentality until you can be in the moment and still be relaxed.
Improvement technique 3. Starting the day
This final reality improvement technique makes sure you start your day attracting good feeling things right away. When you begin your day, instead of thinking right away of things that have to be done, or problems that you were focused on yesterday try easing into your day. Open your eyes and feel the bedding, be happy in your moment. Think of the coffee or meal that you will have upon getting out of bed or your option of clothing. Be nice to yourself and refresh with a bath or shower. Give yourself the time to really enjoy it. Relax while you walk, whether it be at a quick step or slowly. Think of the things that you are looking forward to and appreciate. Do this for a number of days until it becomes natural for you to do so. Be easier with your day.
